There are many lessons you can learn during sex that you can take with you for life and here, we show you some of them!
1. Don't chase temporary pleasures
Orgasms are great, don't get me wrong, but an orgasm is a temporary pleasure. Countless times, gay men have quick, sexual encounters with the clear intention of just having an orgasm. Attention, this is not bad, but you can learn from life lesson that temporary pleasures go away very quickly...
2. Don't be selfish just because you can get away
You can easily have sex with a man, reach orgasm in seconds and then tell him to leave. That's called being a selfish idiot. If you happen to end up prematurely, still make sure the passive has fun. Don't kick him out right away. You can and should, still please him and make sure he has fun too!
3. Don't delete something new before trying it
A lot of people don't find the idea of the Greek kiss the most exciting thing in the world and this is just one example. However, before excluding any practice from your sex life, you should first try it. You may be surprised by the possibilities.
4. Don't be in a hurry! The more patient you are, the better you will be
There are times when the actives are so excited that they just want to penetrate as quickly as possible and finish immediately. However, if you are one of these, you should stop immediately! Never rush sex. The more patient you are, the better your final orgasm will be.
5. Your actions have consequences
If you have a lot of unprotected sex (let's say you're on PrEP), you could inevitably get gonorrhea or chlamydia. That's how it works. So if you don't want that to happen, use a condom. Condoms are still the best sexual protection you can get!
6. Sometimes you can't reach orgasm
And you know what? This is 100% normal! It's often not about the final destination, but about the journey. If you both had fun and had good sex, orgasm may not be of the utmost importance.