What is a Strap-On?
Strap-ons are great sex toys for both male and female couples. They allow you to penetrate your partner, keeping your hands free to have fun.
The strap on is a harness that fits around the hips to better control the toy during use.
The strap is all you need to start pegging and penetration. If you've never heard the term 'pegging' before, it's used to refer to the act of a woman anally penetrating a man.
Strap ons have a hole or an O-ring where a vibrator or dildo fits, which in most cases is already included.
However, once they discover the joys of this type of sex, they will be curious to try out vibrators of new shapes and sizes. Even because at a certain point they may be ready to increase in size!
Hollow strap-ons, what are they?
They are suitable for using flaccid or erect, but they guarantee that you will always have a strong and lasting erection.
They are used to be an extension of the penis and to enjoy new ways of making love. They can be used as an erectile dysfunction aid, allowing you to continue an intimate physical relationship with your partner even when you've broken up and your partner hasn't.
There is another variant of strap-ons which are the double penetration ones. They allow you to enjoy double penetration completely with your hands free. They are held in place with a cock ring which helps with stamina. They add a second axis to sex sessions, so you can completely satisfy your lover with every thrust.
So strap on, lubricate and dive into our stellar selection.
How to change the vibrator or dildo of your strap on?
You must put the vibrator or dildo on your belt before you put the belt on yourself!
The best and most suitable ones must have a suction cup and this suction cup will be the one that fits in this opening of the strap.
Either way, a little water-based lubricant can help get the vibrator or dildo through that opening.
Most strap ons are made up of three main parts:
The belt itself, which usually has a series of adjustable straps that you put on like underwear and then adjust.
A fixed hole to place vibrators or dildos.
A vibrator or dildo that fits into the hole or ring.
You will find that the best way to get the most out of your strap on is to experiment with speed, depth and positions, but there are a few important things to remember that will make using the strap on easier and more comfortable for everyone involved.
Use lubricant. Whether you're penetrating your vagina or anus, a good lube will make it much smoother and more comfortable for everyone. And if you're going to use it for anal, it's extremely important!
Go slow. It is important that you reserve to 'warm up' and relax, especially for anal penetration. Therefore, experiment with fingers and smaller toys first and advance to penetration only when they feel ready, especially who is going to be penetrated!
Talk to your partner during the experience. Remember that the user cannot feel their new appendage. So, if you are being penetrated, you will need to go on saying and showing how good it is. If you're the giver, just make sure you listen not only to your partner's words, but also their reactions, and let them guide the depth and speed of penetration.
Find a position that is more comfortable for both of you. Some of the favorite and popular positions are the doggy and spoon style.
Establish a safe word. That word or phrase, once said, means that you must stop immediately and is vital for the feeling of security during this moment.
Client tips for great strap-on sex
- Keeping clean is a priority and probably the most discouraging thing that can happen is there are dirty surprises especially if you are new to the experience and not sure about it.
- Don't forget that you can use sleeves and penis extensions to add more length and girth to your dildos.
- Role reversal can bring great improvements in a relationship.
- One of the best ways to strengthen the relationship of trust for a couple is to have sex with a strap on.