BDSM: Safety and Accessories
In the past few years there has been a considerable increase in interest in the practice of BDSM. Men and women have discovered that causing or feeling pain can add pleasure in a relationship. This led to an increase in the sale of handcuffs, whips and whips and other accessories.
However, there are still many doubts about the use and handling of these objects. Doubts also about how the agreements between dominator and submissive work. That's why we came today to explain and clear up all these doubts.
How to practice BDSM safely? Use the safe word
For a safe BDSM session, individuals must have all the rules defined and one of the most important is the safe word. This password must be used if the partner exceeds the limit.
The safe word can be a color, a number, an object, an animal or anything that is not part of everyday life like: love, yes, no, for, etc. Choose something that is easy to remember, but that when said is readily respected. Example: RED! When the word red is spoken the dominator must stop the action immediately.
How to handle objects?
There are a multitude of BDSM accessories for sale in Sex Shops, they are handcuffs, gags, bondage kit, whips and whips of different models and materials, among others. So that you know exactly what to do with each of them, we've made a short summary below.
Cuffs are a great accessory to start with. Immobilization causes a mixture of fear and indescribable pleasure. The partner can see and feel but cannot touch the other and this feeling of helplessness increases arousal and desire.
The most famous of all BDSM items is the whip. And this is also an essential item for anyone who wants to start exploring this side. Both the whip and the whip can be used to cause pain, within agreed limits, and they also cause a lot of pleasure. Different styles bring different sensations.
If you are a beginner, opt for thicker synthetic leather or silicone bristles. And in the case of the whip, opt for a larger tip, so the touch surface increases, thus being less aggressive.
There are many different types of containments. They can be installed on the bed, on a wall, in a cross, in the form of spreader bars and much more. The purpose of this product is to partially immobilize parts of the body such as the hands, arms, feet and legs for greater control of the dominator.
A ball gag is used to muffle the voice of the wearer, preventing them from speaking. It does not impede breathing. It is usually tied over the head but may not be, it has a ball that sits inside the lips and teeth and is used to instill a sense of submission.
A blindfold or mask prevents the wearer from seeing it. These are usually classic sleep masks or a scarf that requires it to be tied. By restricting vision, the other senses become super sharp. This can increase sensitivity to touch, taste, smell and sound.